Kaylee Pitcher with her mother Darla Sterling at McMurry University. (Photo: Ronald W. Erdrich/Reporter-News)
Editor's note: Saturday is college graduation day in Abilene.
One took the traditional route to graduation at McMurry University; the other took an extremely nontraditional route.
Meet the mother/daughter duo, Darla Sterling and Kaylee Pitcher.
A family affair
Sterling is 42 and her daughter is 22.
Pitcher graduated in 2015 from Hawley High School and will be graduating from college Saturday in the traditional four years, which she said have gone by quickly.
Not so with mom.
“I feel like it drug out for 20 years,” Sterling said.
And, indeed, it did. Sterling has taken a remarkable path to graduation when she will earn a degree in nursing, with a minor in business. She wanted to make sure that her three daughters, Amber, Kaylee and Carlee didn’t have it as rough.
“My kids didn’t have an option,” Sterling said.
They knew they were going to college or into the military as soon as they graduated from high school. All three chose college.
Amber graduated from McMurry in 2016 and Carlee is on track to graduate next year from Hardin-Simmons University — the only non-McMurry graduate in the bunch.
“She didn’t want to do the same thing as the rest of us,” Sterling said. “And, her boyfriend went to Hardin-Simmons.”
The future begins Saturday
Sterling will pick up her nursing degree and Pitcher will get her degree in finance, with a minor in criminology. The evening will be spent at Sterling’s home, 16 miles north of Abilene, with a full house expected for the celebration.
Soon, both mother and daughter will be moving to the Dallas-Fort Worth area, where Sterling wants to get a job as a nurse at a hospital and Pitcher will look for a job, probably in business.
“We’ll get there and then I’ll decide,” she said.
Sterling is glad that her daughter had the easier track to getting her degree. At Hawley High School, Pitcher was a star athlete in volleyball, basketball, track and softball.
“She was voted Iron Woman,” her mom added, proudly.
At McMurry, Pitcher ran track and played soccer before giving up both to concentrate on her studies and a job. She also is a member of TIP social club and Women’s Interclub.
Pitcher enrolled at McMurry in the fall of 2015 and her mother followed in January 2016. During the 2016 spring semester, Sterling and two of her daughters, Kaylee and Amber, were on the McMurry campus at the same time.
Pitcher was undaunted when she learned that her mother would be a college student on the same campus at the same time as she was.
“Cool, go for it,” was Pitcher’s reaction.
Way to work, mom
Sterling was 19 when Kaylee was born. She dropped out of high school and later earned a General Education Development certificate. She enrolled at Texas State Technical College and got training as a paramedic. She also worked overnight shifts at the Abilene State Supported Living Center to take care of her three girls during the day.
Sterling later worked at the Presbyterian Medical Care Mission, which led to her decision to become a nurse. After leaving that job in 2014, Sterling became a full-time student, taking classes at Cisco College for 1½ years before enrolling at McMurry.
“I didn’t really know what I wanted to be when I grew up,” she joked.
When Sterling enrolled at McMurry in January 2016, she was in for a surprise. Everything was done on the computer, unlike the last time she was in school.
“Trying to figure out how to do algebra online was crazy,” she said.
But she overcame that obstacle and many others en route to graduation. After Saturday, Sterling will settle into one job, with no homework to do and no children to watch over.
“It’s going to be a different life,” she said.
By Loretta Fulton
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